Life after divorce and "what if"?
I am thought in this area divorce for a couple months. My husband is excellent man, we are together 8 years, no kids, but nothing between us looks excellent. Daily fights, arguing, no respect, no passion, no mutual leisure activities…everything what I loved in this area our relationship is gone and I don’t know what to do anymore. I went to counseling to get a help to find out what I want in my life and what I don’t. My husband expected that his wife will be changed person after few sessions. It did not take place and he doesn’t know why I even bother to go there. He thinks everything is my fault…I want to get divorce since I can’t make him pleased anymore and I don’t reckon he can make me pleased either. I feel sad and empty. In my head is million “what if”…What if I will never find somebody who will like me, what if my husband is the best what could take place to me, what if I become lonely, lost, despised person??? I don’t know what to do and honestly, I am frightened. How is life after divorce?
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Maybe you need to go to counselling together?
It’s unfair on him to stay only since he MIGHT be the best you could find.
Life after divorce sucks. You should break for a couple months, and reckon long and hard if you are any more pleased apart. You may surprise yourself. I strongly suggest you go to counselling sessions together, and try to resolve your issues with each other.
After going to counseling, you found that your way of living isnt really what makes you pleased. No harm in that…in fact, finding out what it is that you want and dont want makes all the differnce, now you can go on to the things that DO make you pleased and place the misery in the rear you.
You shouldnt worry in this area things you have no control of…like finding someone new. You already know that your husband isnt the best for you otherwise this marriage would be working so dont set yourself up for failure again with that thought….and unless you have plans of apt some horrible person, why wouldnt someone else find you entertaining and refreshing to be around? Dont sell yourself small….
Its not unusual to have those doubts and questions, but you have the answers to them all…it’ll work out for you, you just have to lose the dread of change and go on.
change is hard very hard but we do it all the time
he may be the best person for you one day but it does not sound like it is today and that is the one you are living in better to make the best person for you is YOU, then things will fall into place.
if you are miserable then change your situation for you that is the only thing you can control anyway….